1.He leaves a party early to give you a big hug when you get home from a family trip.
2. He turns off the last few minutes of the championship game—or at least mutes the sound—when you call to chat.
3. He comes over with fro yo and a funny vid when you’re majorly PMSing.
4.When you’re away, he walks your dog for you— more than once a day.
5. He tells you stories about the silly things he did when he was little.
6.He busts on your ex.
7. When you hate your haircut and can’t stop crying, he says you look great.
8. He helps you baby-sit your little sis—and enjoys it.
9. He witnesses you having a Say Anything moment and doesn’t blab about it to all his buds.
10.You’re the first one he calls when his pet turtle dies.
11.He dedicates a shout-out to you on the radio.
12. He says he can’t wait to show you his new wheels— then drives right over to take you for a spin.
20.When you’re bumming about a test you bombed, he tries his best to make you laugh.
14 He grows out his buzz cut after you gush about Gavin’s longer’do.
15.He asks you to hit the mall with him to help him pick out some new threads.
16.He thinks your baby pictures are so cute that he asks to keep one of them.
17.He names his new pet fish after you
18.He calls you from study hall when you stay home sick.
19.He gets back from a ball game he went to with the guys and gives you the foul ball he caught.
20.Your favorite movie is a total chick flick, but he watches it with you anyway.
21.He tucks sweet notes under your windshield wipers to surprise you when he sees your car parked in town.
22.He e-mails you a corny “roses are red” poem knowing there’s a good chance your parents might read it.
23.He boogies with you all night at the semi formal—and you know he’s not a get down hound.
24.He lugs his camera to all of your soccer games to capture you in action.
25.He’s not ashamed to get misty-eyed when you watch Powder together.
26. He thinks it’s cool you can burp louder than he can.
27.He looks obviously proud when he notices other guys checking you out.
28.He calls just to say goodnight.
29. He keeps mementos of your relationship in a shoe box under his bed.
30. He gives you the news straight out.
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Some girls would kill for a problem like this. They’d give anything for one guy, any guy, and there you are, try ing to juggle two! But just because you’re in an enviable position doesn’t mean it’s an easy situation to deal with. If you’ve been there, you know: Dating two guys can mean double trouble!
Maybe you’re out with one guy, and you run into the other. Or one guy shows up at your doorstep just as the other one is on his way out. Or how about one TEEN reader who’s dating two guys named Jeff! “One spells his name ‘G-E-O-F-F,’ so that makes it a little easier. But when my mom says, ‘Jeff’s on the phone,’ I never know which one I’m going to be talking to!”
So, is it possible to date two guys without feeling like a two-timer? Absolutely! There’s no rule regarding the number of guys a girl can go out with. As long as she doesn’t lead them on or intentionally try to make them jealous, it’s OK to “date around.” (Of course, it’s NOT a good idea to “sleep around” or get physically involved with lots of guys. In addition to the risks of getting pregnant or contracting an STD, a girl who sleeps around may also suffer from emotional wounds that can be difficult—if not impossible—to heal.) If you’re dating two guys, and you’re feeling pressure to choose one, try to figure out where that pressure is coming from.
1. Is it coming from a friend? if so, she may not be the best person for you to discuss your dilemma with. Perhaps she’s jealous, or perhaps her views on dating just don’t jibe with yours.
2. Is it coming from the guys?
Again, as long as you’re honest with them and let them know where they stand, they can either respect your decision NOT to make a decision—or move on.
3. Is it coming from you?
if you feel that you’re truly a one-guy kind of girl, do some serious soul searching. Write down why you’re attracted to each guy. If anything bugs you about them, write those things down, too. See if one guy comes out on top. If it’s still a “tie,” or if you don’t feel strongly swayed either way, then it’s possible that NEITHER guy is Mr. Right. And if that’s the case, then you’d be wise to double your efforts to hang on to your single status!
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He’s a flirt. He tells you you’re the one—then proceeds to flash his cute smile at every girl he sees. Should you attribute this behavior as some defective male gene, or should you dump him and move on to someone who only has eyes for you?
Tips to handle a flirtatious boyfriend:
realize that his ‘ ego is at stake, and he’s dealing with the same insecurities as you and your friends. It’s normal for a guy to want to feel loved and adored by everyone. His way of getting the attention he craves is to flirt.
Tell him how you feel about his flirting. Let him know that you don’t like it when he flirts with other girls. If he really cares about you, he’ll probably try to be sensitive to your feelings. He might not even realize he’s doing it!
don’t i flirt with other guys to get revenge! Remember, your boyfriend is flirting because he’s insecure. If you start flirting it’ll just make him feel worse, and probably push the two of you apart even more. (Besides, you’re the mature one, right?)
Try to satisfy some of your boyfriend’s need to feel special by telling him how great you think he is, and by showing him how important he is to you. Some over-the-top compliments never hurt, either: “Hey, you’re the funniest/cutest/smartest/ hairiest legged guy in school,” could do wonders for a guy’s self-esteem, and might curb his need to get attention from other sources.
If he still can’t restrain IT himself, and his flirtatious behavior continues to bother you, don’t hesitate to bail on the guy! If he’s so insecure that he compulsively flirts at your expense, you don’t need him! TOP tip: DON’T TAKE HIS FLIRTING PERSONALLY! It usually has nothing to do with a girl not being pretty, charming or witty enough, but is instead 100% the guy’s personal problem. In other words, he’d do it to anyone he’s dating! (The same goes for flirtatious girls). It just means he has some major growing up to do!
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