7 Places He Really Loves to Be Touched
1.The face
To men, our faces represent little more than a grooming annoyance, full of clogged pores and unwanted hair. When a woman can turn this into a source of pleasure, let me assure you it comes as an unexpected, even otherworldly, treat.
As the seat of all but one of our live senses, the face is an ideal place 10 start touching the busy man in your life.There are more nerve endings coming and going from our brain to the lips, tongue, and other parts of the mouth than there are coming and going from our arms, hands, legs, and feet put together. Brush his face with fingertips, rub his temples, stroke him behind the ears, and finish it off with a vigorously scratchy scalp massage—another pleasure virtually unknown in the male universe. The benefits will start accruing almost immediately.Getting him relaxed is an important precursor to good sex, It gets him ready, physically and emotionally.
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2. His chest
The chest, as any self-respecting gorilla could tell you. is an important seat of maleness. And the nipples, with all their nerve endings and hairless skin, are an ultrahigh-sensitivity zone.There is erectile tissue there—tissue which by definition increases in volume when you get aroused.We know that in women there’s a connection between nipples and genitals; there’s probably one in men as well.When my wife zeroes in on my nippies I sends real electricity shooting throughout my nervous system.
The nipples represent one of the few erogenous zones men have completely in common with women, and it’s no trivial point. There’s an intimacy that comes out of this. I think: Touching is always one-sided, but at least 1 know that she knows what it feels like when she touches me there.
Combining the manliness of the chest with the female associations of nipples can be a potent combination just this side of taboo.Twist ‘em. pull ‘em. whatever. And the further along in the sex act we are. the more stimulating it is for me. If I’m about to climax, I pretty much want her to bite them right off.” Um…better take it easy to start with. Try raking your hands lightly through the hair, kneading your palms against his chest, tracing imaginary lines from neck to navel. Good tip: Put saliva on your ringers. It keeps your touch from being too dry.
3.His hands and feet
The extremities can really take a beating over the course of a long day’s work, and a little hand or foot massage can go a long way toward bringing about a relaxed state conducive to seduction. A lot of people report extreme tension in their fingers and toes.If you work on those areas sensually, it can create a tremendous decrease in anxiety and a sense of real relaxation.
When you find a way to take the part of our bodies that’s causing us aches and anxiety and turn it into a pleasure center, the effect can be magical—and we’re definitely predisposed to reward the magician. But not all guys enjoy having ringers and toes orally stimulated, so if you plan to move beyond platonic muscle massage, move slowly and cautiously. Sure, finger licking and toe kissing are pretty tame behavior, but there’s a fetishistic aspect to it that some find more appealing than others.Some simply find it ticklish and irritating, but others may really enjoy it. It’s these individual, secret preferences that turn people on.
4.The undersides of his arms and legs
Guys like to feel as manly in the bedroom as they do in the garage. But sex is also about vulnerability, even for us. That’s why our soft spots, the smooth, relatively hairless insides of our arms and backs of our legs—you know, the tickle spots—are erogenous zones waiting to happen. The skin there can be made to feel incredibly alive.Yielding these vulnerable spots to you, symbolically ceding control over our safety, can produce some serious sexual energy.
Some of the attraction can be explained simply by the heightened sensitivity of these areas. But nonphysical factors play a major role in the sex appeal of our soft spots. Some guys really enjoy being teased—up and down the legs and along the abdomen, in areas that are not expressly sexual, but are often arousing in a sensual way. That has nothing to do with nerve endings; that has more to do with the woman being the initiator, focused on pleasuring the man. It’s a torture-reward cycle: Symbolically, you’re the aggressor, exposing his weaknesses; in reality, you caress and massage him. not abusing that power.
5. His Privates
Men want to be touched here all the time, constantly: if they could find a way to surgically attach your hand, they probably would. But don’t just dismiss this information: Use it to your advantage. Random acts of kindness, for example, are unbelievably binding; reach into our laps under the table at the big corporate dinner or when we’re driving (long straightaways only, please), and we’re yours forever. I promise your hand will never be swatted away.
Some strategy notes: The underside of the penis is more sensitive than the topside, and the head is where the lion’s share of nerve endings are—you can’t go wrong focusing your attentions toward the tip. The testicles, as you’ve no doubt heard, are a bit sensitive, and rough play here is not advised unless you want to see how fast he can cure up into a protective fetal position. But the penis itself is hardier, and can stand some, ah, vigor.
Many men report that women’s ministrations downstairs are too perfunctory, that it’s clear they feel this is something they have to do. not something they want to do. The more you’re turned on. the more we’re turned on.
6.His rear on
Many, many guys like having attention paid to their behinds. and touch in this area can be the source of intense, borderline-illicit pleasure. We’re talking about the buns, of course, but we’re also talking about the perineum (the area between the anus and Che scrotum)—the closest thing there is to a male G-spot. This area is packed with nerve endings: massaging it can greatly enhance lovemaking. if you’re into it.
The idea that this area is a dangerous or forbidden zone doubles its erotic appeal, naturally: It’s an easy way to add a dash of illicit thrill to your love life without investing in a bunch of novelty items. If you’re comfortable, give it a shot. Just don’t try to talk it out beforehand, unless you’re hell bent on making the experience as uncomfortable and awful for him as possible. Men have it hard time articulating their desires anyway.
7.His ego
Practically, this means making him feel good about him self. Men want to be able to tell women where they want to be touched without feeling ashamed or embarrassed or uncomfortable. We also want to be able to physically show you how and where to touch us. Don’t get frustrated, or make fun. or you’ll sabotage the whole thing and short-circuit his pleasure in one fell swoop.
And give him feedback too: Key to male enjoyment in the bedroom is knowing he’s being a good lover. Sure, men are fully capable of carrying out sex without a thought for the woman’s enjoyment—any single woman could tell you that. But we feel intensely guilty afterward, whether or not we acknowledge it—this is why guys flee after the “thought less” sex that characterizes one-night stands and those devastating quickies. If he’s doing a good job, let him know in every way you can think of.
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