He’s not interested
I really like this guy, but he’s my best friend’s boyfriend. We’re lab partners in chem, so we talk a lot and have become good friends. Every time I try to tell him how much I like him, though, he changes the subject. What should I do? It hurts when I see this guy and my friend together.
answer:
The good news is that you’ve got a good friend in this guy, but the bad news is that you’re jeopardizing both friendships if you try to push for romance. His changing the subject is a tactful way of telling you he’s not interested. He’s trying not to have to say it straight out. Your best bet is to maintain your friendships and back off on the idea of romance.
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