He asked me if I was a virgin
I’ve been going out with this guy for a year. We went out the other night, and he asked me if I was a virgin. I told him I wasn’t, but I really am. He asked me to have sex with him. I don’t want to, but he told me that he’d break up with me. I don’t want to lose him. What should I do?
answer:
This issue is extremely important. First, you should never feel embarrassed about who you are. Your boyfriend has no right to ask that question, and you are not obligated to answer it. If he’s going to break up with you over sex, then let him. This guy isn’t worth it. You should be very proud of yourself. Don’t let him bully you into making a decision that you are uncomfortable with. Tell your boyfriend that if sex is all he cares about, then he’s not the right guy for you. Give him a chance to explain because sometimes guys say things—especially about sex—that they don’t mean. If he loves you, he’ll understand how you feel.
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