Should I tell her to get lost?
I have this wishy-washy “friend.” One day, she needs someone to talk to and comes to me. The next day, she needs someone to pick on, so she abuses me. Should I tell her to get lost?
answer:
Before you tell your friend to get lost, tell her how you feel. Explain that when she’s hot and cold with you, you feel hurt and used. Hopefully, she’ll get the message and start treating you right. But if she falls back into her unpredictable ways and starts abusing you again, you need to tell her loud and clear that you refuse to be treated that way—and walk away from her. By holding your ground, you’ll send her a message: If she can’t show you some respect, she’ll lose you as a friend.
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