Would you call this cheating?
I have been with my boyfriend for one year now and things are fabulous, however I have fust recently started chatting on the phone with my ex-boyfriend. He has been overseas for a couple of years and we lost contact, so it’s nice to catch up as friends. I have agreed to catch up with him over drinks, but I don’t want to mention this to my current beau. Am I doing the wrong thing? Would you call this cheating?
answer:
Well, yes and no. If honesty is a valuable element in your relationship (and one year on it should be) then you are doing the wrong thing. Whether it’s an omission of truth or an outright fabrication, this is still lying. I would not, however, call this cheating as such. That would involve tongues. Still, though, after 12 months together there should exist enough trust in your romance that your man should be fine with you catching up with your ex for a drink. The question is: can you trust yourself?
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