Where can I meet someone who will take a relationship seriously?
I have just come out of my sixth three-month relationship. When I first start seeing someone new everything is fabulous, then they always seem to lose interest. These guys call me at all hours of the night and don’t want to go out on proper dates. What am I doing wrong? And where can I meet someone who will take a relationship seriously and give me a commitment longer than a couple of months? I don’t want to be a booty call anymore.
answer:
This would seem to imply that you have allowed yourself to be a booty call in the past. When this stops, your relationships will last longer. I’m not suggesting you become a sexual prude, nor am I judging you, but perhaps you’re hopping into bed just a little too soon. Focus on connecting emotionally, spiritually and intellectually and don’t believe that a physical bond can make up for deficiencies in other areas. Next time around, take more of a stand and don’t allow yourself to be put in such pliant positions (as it were). Dictate the pace and activities and don’t hesitate to put a man who oversteps the mark with early morning calls in his place. If he can’t handle this, then you’ve got a pretty good indicator that he was never planning to hang around for long.
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