Break out of a sexual rut
More and more women are divorcing in their late 30s and early 40s. On the plus side, you’re more confident and know your body. But just the thought of getting naked in front of a new guy can make you want to stay in and watch TV in your pajamas.
Look on this as an opportunity to break out of a sexual rut. Yes, you feel vulnerable, but that will most likely endear you to him, making him want to please you even more. Ideally, time a big night with your partner to mesh with your body’s sexual peaks. Right before ovulation and not too long before you menstruate are two tidal waves of orgasmic energy, so you’ll enjoy a stronger climax.
To get rid of any nerves, trying a novel way of getting to know each other’s bodies - body mapping.
Get naked, then each time your man pays attention to an erogenous zone, say how sensitive it is out of five, and how you like to be touched there. Next, try stimulating acupressure hotspots. Use the heel of the hand to gradually increase pressure in the center of the crease where the thigh joins the front of the torso. You’ll soon be as relaxed as a couple who’ve been making love for months - but you’ll still have that delicious new sex thrill.
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