Is having sex once a week demanding?
I love my wife very much but she doesn’t have the urge for sex. She always makes excuses like she’s tired and not in the mood. She says I’m too demanding. Is having sex once a week demanding? Now, I don’t want to ask anymore as I fear rejection. Is this healthy?
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The short answer is: I agree that it is not healthy because you now fear rejection and you sound unhappy. But there could be many reasons for her aversion to wanting to have sex. Stress is one major factor, it could be an underlying medical condition, or it could be that there are unresolved issues between the two of you that you may not be aware of. Here’s a suggestion: Go for an emotional adventure and join her. Walk with her down that road she is walking down at the moment and perhaps that romantic-sexual connection will re-establish itself. Look out for that potential spontaneous reaction on her part. There is another thing to consider-foreplay! Sex, as in intercourse, is not the be-all and end-all. Physical intimacy in other forms can, in themselves, be very satisfying and an end to itself. If you find that you are not moving forward then please do not hesitate to consult a carefully chosen professional.
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