I can’t reach orgasm
My problem is I can’t reach orgasm. Whenever I have sex I feel some sensation build up in my vagina and yet I can’t explode. My man has tried many techniques and yet it is futile. What should I do to ride the same wave with him?
answer:
There are women who have orgasms regularly and some who have never had an orgasm in their whole sexual life. This is due to many possible reasons. One of the important issues behind the ability to enjoy an orgasm is your personal knowledge of your own anatomy. In addition to this is how much of this anatomy you share with your partner especially when it comes to sexual stimulation. Another consideration is how ready you are as a person within the sexual response cycle for an orgasm and how easily you are tripped or thwarted during your build-up. The factors that can thwart the build to climax include pain, emotions, external distractions, fear, etc. Although you say you have tried many techniques, please do try other approaches but make sure they are all safe, both physically and emotionally. If you run out of ideas with regard to techniques, don’t be embarrassed, this is the modern era - don’t hesitate to consult an expert in the field. On riding the same wave with your partner, actually there are very few couples (relatively speaking) who climax together. Many take turns to reach orgasm first. Some have the pleasure of enjoying multiple orgasms, while others do not. Be careful how your expectations might influence your mental and bodily responses during your sexual episodes. Expectations have been known to be one of the biggest culprits in destroying potentially successful and happy sex lives.
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