I find it hard to fall in love
I notice that I have a weird attitude. I tend to reject guys whenever they ask me to be their partner. I always end up pointing out to them their flaws after a few dates. What is wrong with me? I find it hard to fall in love.
answer:
I think there is nothing wrong with you. It’s incredibly common to be picky like this; to hold out for Mr Perfect and not put up with Mr Just Won’t Do. But the reason some women reject perfectly ok guys is not because they want a perfect one; they don’t actually want anyone at all and this is just an excuse - a way of keeping all men away. Why? Because lots of women - and a fair number of men as well - fear closeness to another person. Oh, it’s all unconscious of course, but it’s there. Try to work out what you’re afraid of in a close relationship, and you should find that you start saying yes a bit more often!
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