What is he thinking?
I have been dating a guy for about four months at this moment and when we first started dating it was actually strong. We did all together! We were both fresh out of relationships and I think that this frightened him. He sometimes tells me that I scare him by how close we got and then all of a swift we discussed slowing down. I was ok with it then but now I don’t want to. He will make me dinner, hold my hand, and be so kind one night, then not even call me for a few days. I really like him and I did tell him that I would be patient but I do not know what to do or even what to say to him. What should I do?
answer:
Don’t expect him to call you every single day. Be pleased he calls you every few days. Otherwise you’re going to freak him out and he’s going to ditch you. There are few things as unpleasant as a clingy chick. Mostly guys don’t like talking on the phone 24/7 like most of you girls. Just give him his space, he wants to take things slow and not rushed.
He might very well get to the point where you become a daily thing for him and he feels strange when he doesn’t at least talk to you every day, but he’s not there yet. In my experience, that can take months. Don’t wig out- every thing’s most likely just fine. It’s too soon to cut and run.
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