What should I do to get to know more people and find a boyfriend as well?
I’ve always been shy so I’m not very good at socialising, especially with people I don’t know very well. I’m so quiet, I feel like nobody wants to get to know me. As a result, I don’t have many friends, whether girls or guys. I don’t have a boyfriend either and I am already in my mid-2os. I guess it’s because I never socialise. I don’t smoke and drink, so I don’t much enjoy going to pubs and clubs. I don’t like dancing or karaoke-singing either. As you can see, it’s very difficult for me to find friends. Can you advise what should I do to get to know more people and find a boyfriend as well?
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Attend to your social life and by doing so, you’ll find that your confidence gets a boost as well. Start with a hobby. I know you don’t like dancing but dance lessons are a great way to feel more comfortable with yourself as well as to meet people. If not dance, try art or cooking courses. The list is endless. Decide on either what you enjoy or what you would like to learn and take it from there. When you start making friends, believe me, you’ll keep on making more. Instead of feeling insecure about not being a natural at socialising, realise that there are a lot of people like you. If you go to a class or a club, the people there are sure to share a common interest with you, giving you a starting point for friendship. When your confidence grows, you will realise that you are worthy of friends, even boyfriends. Give it a go and be brave.
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