Since the birth of my baby, I’m so fat
I was slim before I got married a couple of years ago. Since the birth of my baby, I’m so fat! I’m not even 27 and I look like an “aunty”. I can’t bring myself to have sex with husband anymore and I know he’s frustrated. What am I to do?
answer:
Feeling unattractive because of excess weight isn’t an uncommon problem, and when we don’t feel good about ourselves, it’s hard to imagine that others will find us attractive. And when we feel badly about ourselves, chances are we don’t take care of ourselves, which will lead us to feel even worse. If it’ll make you more confident, develop an exercise regime and healthy eating plan that will get you back to a weight that you’re more comfortable with. Setting realistic goals and working towards achieving them will help you feel better about yourself. However, this takes time and you shouldn’t have to sacrifice your love life until you lose weight. Think of all that you have to offer your husband and know that you’re a beautiful woman now. Tell yourself this and believe it. A confident woman, no matter her size, is a beautiful being indeed. What you also need to do now is have a frank talk with your husband. Tell him how you feel about yourself, explain that you’re not rejecting him and tell him that you’re working towards feeling better about yourself and enlist his support. Then, listen to what he has to say. But you need to start believing in yourself and your allure now. You deserve a happy love life whether you’re slim or not.
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