I got married last year and untill now we haven’t have sex
I got married with my boyfriend of five years last year and till now we haven’t had sex. I’ve confronted him on this as I’ve caught him masturbating while watching porn. His excuse was that he needed time to get adjusted to married life. Weeks later I tried seducing him in lingerie but to no avail. What should I do?
answer:
I think your boyfriend has a problem. He must either talk with you or a therapist. He may have problems with intercourse or even foreplay and this is not natural. His problems may even run quite deep in that it might involve some aspects of his history, development or even you. If this situation persists I strongly recommend that you see a specialist. One thing you might try doing is to participate in his “world” of sexual expression. You could watch stimulating movies together and attempt being romantic. You could also try to stimulate him instead of him doing it himself. If you feel you are getting nowhere, don’t wait till tensions develop, at least you must talk to a therapist.
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