I get satisfaction from foreplay
My husband and I didn’t have sex before marriage and after we got married, we did it. But I’ve doubts: I felt him thrust in, but after that nothing, Are we doing it right? He enjoys it but I get satisfaction from foreplay.
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Congratulations about being able to say no to temptation, Many believe there is no longer any virtue in preserving oneself till marriage, but I wish to say that there is always virtue in what you believe in. The best way to figure out whether you are doing it right or not is to get hold of a good book on sex and read it together. Or, consult a sex therapist for a frank discussion. It could be that your husband isn’t penetrating you fully, which is quite common. The best way to enrich your sex life is to do something about it. Making love is more than just putting it in, It is about two people sharing intimate moments. Enjoy your foreplay and try new things. When you are “ready” guide him into you and give him feedback as to his angle of thrust and how “deep” he can go. You will feel him.
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Mar 25th 2008 at 8:16 pm
How long have you been married? Maybe it just takes a little more time in exploration to see what things fit for you as a couple.
Apr 26th 2008 at 5:06 am
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