I suspect my boyfriend is cheating
I suspect my boyfriend is seeing his lady boss, even though she is married. When I stumbled upon an SMS he had sent that read: “Dear, I miss u and I love u”, he claimed he had sent it to the wrong number. Since I found out about this “affair”, my boyfriend has been treating me very nicely and checking on my whereabouts. I think he is frightened that I will blow matters up. What should I do? I also have handphone bills to prove that they talk to each other daily.
answer:
Firstly, have you confronted him and found out what exactly is going on between him and the boss? Until you do, you can’t make an informed decision about whether to stay or go. Tell him you have a lot of evidence stacked against him, and it’s time for him to come clean. If he’s frightened that you will blow things up, use that to get the truth out of him. After all, the last thing he will want is you calling his boss and asking her, or worse, her husband. I’m not suggesting you do it, but use it as a threat to get him to be honest if you need to. Then if he’s a cheater, you can decide whether to stay or go, knowing that he’s betrayed your trust in what I think is the most cowardly way.
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