I don’t feel anything when I have sex with my partner
Before I was with him I used to masturbate and it gave me more pleasure than actual intercourse. My partner is uncircumcised - could that be the reason?
answer:
Masturbation is a very private behavior. There are many sociological, medical, religious, ethical and psychological views regarding it. First and foremost, you need to become honest with yourself. Despite what many believe, and what you may socially profess, you may practice otherwise. There are many who subjectively report that masturbation and other forms of self-stimulation are more gratifying than sexual intercourse. It is possible, depending on your sexual history and sexual philosophy. It is also possible that you find sexual intercourse with your partner not satisfying for many reasons. They could range from he is a lousy sexual partner, he is illiterate with regard to the female anatomy and emotion, you have other preferences, you are conditioned to enjoy masturbation rather than intercourse because of subconscious issues, you are a lousy sexual partner, you are illiterate with regard to male sexual responsiveness, the ambiance is not right, the foreplay is inefficient, the mood is wrong… It could be one of many or a combination of a few. Whether your partner is circumcised or not is not an issue. I also can attest to the fact that the presence or absence of foreskin has no effect on sexual performance or sexual satisfaction for both parties. It’d be best if you and your partner could consult a sex therapist and explore your ideas and experiences of sex and sexual behavior.
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