Dirty talk during love-making
I like some dirty talk during my love-making session with my husband. However, he is so quiet all of the time I can’t even tell if he has had an orgasm. I’ve become less verbal of course as it’s become very weird for me to whisper sweet nothings when he doesn’t respond in the same manner. What’s up with that and what can I do?
answer:
Your husband is probably just the silent type. Even though your husband does not express his appreciation with words, it doesn’t mean he’s not aroused or enjoying the sex. Maybe he feels embarrassed, or he finds that noises and words reduce sensation and pleasure. Maybe he chooses to show his excitement in another manner, like the rhythm and pace of his movements and breathing. The fact that your husband is not reciprocating your style should not make you feel unappreciated. To sort this problem out, rather than expect your husband to use the signs that come naturally to you, start looking for the signs of appreciation and enjoyment that come naturally to him. Rest assured, if he’s got an erection, you can safely say he’s enjoying himself and he will certainly have ways of moving that show when he is aroused. A heart-to-heart talk with him may help too. Ask him to tell you about his arousal signs and look for them yourself. If you know your husband is getting excited and showing it in the way that’s right for him, then you’ll find it much easier to get excited too.
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