He asks for sex when he has trouble sleeping
My boyfriend and I enjoy good sex but what upsets me is that he asks for sex when he has trouble sleeping. What’s wrong?
answer:
Good, exciting and enjoyable sex is known to be pretty good exercise. It has been said that it burns quite a few calories. If sex is active and exciting it is not surprising that people want to lie down and relax, enjoying every moment and just letting go. Sleep comes easy after sex. However if you feel he is using you as a “tablet” to get to sleep, then you need to tell him. It is surprising that you would rather give in and let him hurt your feelings rather than tell him and work this out! Keep doing this and one day you will explode and both of you may be traveling down opposite emotional one-way-streets. Choose your time and place, choose the mood and setting and then approach the topic. It may be a good idea to “do it” spontaneously at another time during the day and then bring it up. Get him to “rise to the occasion” so that you both can address a mutually important issue.
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