can he accept that I’m not a virgin
Last year I lost my virginity to my ex-boyfriend. In a few months, I’ll be getting married to a guy of my parents’ choosing. I don’t think he can accept that I’m not a virgin. Please advise.
answer:
Physical virginity is overrated. First, we’ve thousands of women who play sport and have torn their hymen -does this mean they’re no longer virgins? We also have virginity as a female virtue - it implies that men who are corrupted or who have been sleeping around are okay to accept as husbands! There are some things in one’s life that need to remain secrets. If you’ve problems doing so, find a counselor to work things through. The issue is you’re making a commitment of yourself as a partner. Not as a person with a spotless history. If you feel you cannot cope - talk to a professional. You see - the choice is yours. To tell or not to tell? You got a life to live! Live it well.
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Feb 25th 2008 at 1:47 pm
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