Approach men with body language
How to Attract the Lads
By Frankie Janiyan
Ladies, if you are joining at a wedding with the intent to attract the lads, take care to become acquainted with body languages and gestures. Sure, you can approach gentlemen and speak your mind, but trust, if you want to attract the lads, you will need body signals that peeks his interest. Body languages and gestures, including eyes, hands, etc, say more than a thousand unique words.
When you use the equipment God gave you to attract the lads, you are sending him messages, likely he will not ignore. Take care that you do not send the wrong messages however. This is why you want to learn proper languages and communication in gestures and body languages.
Using the eyes to draw in the lads: You can use your eyes to attract the lads at weddings. Batting your eyelids is one method, yet you will be more effective if you glance, turn your head slightly down, peer up and smile with a half mouth grin. The message you are sending to him, says, “I am interested in you.” You are also letting the lad know that you are not prepared to take the front, so it is his turn to move. Put him in check and he will make the next move to checkmate you.
Using your hands to attract lads:
Your hands can speak louder than words. One of the oldest beliefs in hand languages is that when a woman plays with her hair, she is flirting. While this is not always true, most people will interpret it as such. On that note, use your hand to play with your hair, twirling it as you hang your head downward, casually glancing up at the lad you prefer. Watch his next move. If he does not show interest, try bringing your fingers up to your lips as you bite down gently bringing the lip inward, expressing a “hum’ like emotion.
Using the legs to make your move:
If you want to attract the lads, learn how to use those legs. Men often enjoy a nice looking pair of legs, so be sure that the lad you are interested in, gets the opportunity to see your stuff. When sitting, cross your legs over and slightly kick one or the other leg back and forth. If all else fails, try the bending over and picking up the napkin, you dropped as you bend your head up, peering in his direction with a half-face grin.
A casual smile can send a message also. If you find a lad that peeks your interest, give him a shot of those pearly whites. Remember, you are not peering into a camera about to say, “Cheese,” rather you are learning how to attract the lads. Use a genuine smile and he is almost certainly ready to make the next move. Lastly, when you are trying to attract the lads, be sure to learn hand languages and body signals to discover your move.
Frankie Janiyan writes for Eclipse Leisure Stag Weekends
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