I’m getting flirt vibes from my ex’s best friend. Is it uncool to go out with him?
Answer:
As a general rule, yes. Guy buds tend to be pretty tight, and any girl who threatens to bust up that bond often ends up getting the squeeze.
But before you give up your crush, ask yourself this: are you willing to jeopardize whatever friendship you have with your ex? If you don’t hang with your ex anyway, or if this guy’s your ultimate and you decide that you’re okay with taking that risk, you may want to give it a shot.
If you do decide to go for it,you should fess upto your ex first.
He maybe pissed or hurt—especially if he was the dumpee in your relationship or if you two were a serious item—but it’s better that he hears it from you than through the grapevine.
In time he’ll get over it, and when he does he’ll be happy that you were up-front.
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