Snubbed buddy
I recently introduced my best friend, Lois, to some girlfriends I hang out with occasionally. Over the past few months, we’ve spent time together as a group. Now, one of these women is throwing a party, and she isn’t inviting Lois. When I asked why, she said, “Lois just isn’t part of our circle. Sorry.” I think it’s awful to exclude Lois. What can I do?
Answer:
Even though Lois has been spending time with your circle of friends, it doesn’t make her their close pal. Whom they invite to their gatherings is up to them, and you can’t force a friendship. I’m sure Lois has other friends, and she’s already got a great friend in you. Don’t make an issue of this with your friends— and don’t mention the party to Lois either. You don’t have to feel guilty about having different sets of pals. And they don’t all have to be buddies.
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