What makes a man feel insecure?
1.Being with a woman sexually for the first time makes him insecure. He always worried about making a misstep: rubbing something too hard or not hard enough, losing erection when he put on a condom or not being able to bring a woman to orgasm. Sometimes he avoid a sexual encounter, rather than risk exposing any sexual inadequacies.
2.Your last boyfriend was a millionaire and he feel like a total washout because he can’t buy you any of the nice things he used to get for you. “If he’d been a genius, he would feel stupid.”
3.One of the biggest insecurity is his height. He is only five foot seven, and it’s just not enough. He feel out of place with other guys because he can’t play as many sports, and he feel out of place with women because so many are my height or taller.
4.His wife is much more creative and kooky. She’s a free spirit and he is totally mainstream. He is insecure about his lack of artistic ability and worry that one day she’s going to change her mind about him. She’s going to say, ‘I know I said I wanted someone more reliable and stable in my life, but now I realize you’re too boring.’
5.He was always insecure about finances, but now more than ever because they had a baby. Things that he thought of as luxuries now seem like necessities, such as a house with a yard.
6.He definitely insecure about the size of his penis.
7.When his car broke down in the highway he feel supposed to know this stuff, but he hasn’t got a clue.
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