I’m too ticklish
I am very ticklish. When I was little, it wasn’t a big deal, but now I’m close to becoming intimate with a guy, and I’m very nervous. I don’t want to scream and jump away every time he touches me. How can I overcome this?
answer:
One thing you could do is try to relax.The thing about ticklishness is that even though the physical sensation is entirely real, a lot of the sensitivity is actually in your head. In other words, if you know being touched may make you jump out of your skin, you’ll start squirming before anyone even lays a finger on you. A lot of it is nervousness, too. If you’re not used to being touched in a romantic situation, it makes sense that you’d feel tense and jumpy. Once you get used to it, you’ll probably calm down and be less ticklish.
But I know you need to figure out how to deal with the situation right now. One thing that might help is to remind yourself how much you like this guy and care about him. If you’re really into him, there’s a pretty good chance you’ll be able to let go of your tenseness and let yourself be romantic and sexy. You might also want to be up-front with him. If he’s about to touch you, and you’re afraid you’re going to jump a mile in the air, try this: Gently grab his arm or hand (so you let him know that you aren’t mortally offended by his attempt to get closer) and say, “There’s something you should know about me. I’m so ticklish, I may have to join a convent.” That way you’ll break the tension, and he’ll know he’s not doing anything wrong. Then proceed as slowly as you need to. It may take a little while, but I suspect it’ll get easier all the time.
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May 31st 2007 at 3:34 pm
thanks, this is my exact situation. helps! tyty (: